Unless you’ve been living in a cave with absolutely no internet access, you’ll have noticed that everyone is talking about mindfulness. Living in and appreciating the moment seems a simple concept but in this busy and technology driven era, multi-tasking is such second nature that it takes real effort to retrain our brains to be in the here and now. (As I type this I also have one eye on Midsomer Murders, am fussing the dog and trying to drink a smoothie to get up to my five a day).
Adult colouring books, themselves a form of mindfulness – or ‘art therapy’ as it is also called – have topped the Amazon bestseller list for months now. I’m a huge fan although I do my colouring while watching the telly so I’m not sure if that counts!
A friend is even taking a degree in mindfulness and she loves it. It’s not just psychobabble: living in the here and now and really appreciating everything we are experiencing with all our five senses has enormous health benefits. I decided to give it a try a few months ago to counteract all the stress of trying to move house.
As a Type A personality, I find concentrating on one thing impossible. My mind is forever racing with a never ending to-do list, imaginary scenarios about what might or might not happen and then flashing back to the past So giving mindfulness a go and trying to lose myself in the moment is proving very challenging. Like most skills, it takes practice.
It might just be I’ve already found my mindfulness activity. We all have a ‘flow’activity where time becomes suspended and we are totally lost and absorbed in our own world. For some it is a sport, gardening or baking: for me, it is writing. Once I stop my displacement/distraction activities and cease making excuses as to why I can’t write, and actually put bum to seat and fingers to keyboard, hours can go by as I become lost in the world of words I have created. This new world becomes my reality, a reality rich and bright in detail with wonderful three-dimensional characters. If the real world intrudes (the phone ringing, the dog wanting to be let out) I’m always jolted back to reality with a shock, rather like waking suddenly from a vivid dream.
If your passion is writing then you will know exactly what I mean. But everyone should have a ‘flow’ activity where they can switch off from the distractions of the life and really appreciate the moment. And I can highly recommend the colouring books!